OkCupid Fun
Aug. 15th, 2010 07:47 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
alterinSo one of the most annoying things about the online dating scene is when you write someone an amazing message and you get no reply. All of your good intentions and thoughts go into a fun interesting short and witty message, and in response, she can't be be bothered to reply(if she even read the message!). But every now and then, I'll send someone a little "OH WOW! You're amazing!" message. And for this, I honestly don't expect a reply because usually I'm not actually hitting on said person because of the distance thing. I just saw a profile that I liked with a person attached that seems ideal, but she since she doesn't live in Vegas, there is no match potential there. I do it as a slight ego boost that just makes me feel better about myself, y'know? Well the other day, I wrote one of said messages to someone. And she actually did take the time to reply! Nothing amazing or detailed, but she replied and it kinda made my day.
I wrote....
You suck! Or I do, either way...
Aug. 6, 2010 – 3:50am
My favorite part of your profile, "or you don't drive a hummer" That's so awesome! But anyways, I'm just trying to ego boost you a little(your too far away for me to actually seriously hit on, but lets call it.. hitting on girls practice ;). You seem absolutely adorably from loving karaoking, to watching food network, to working in restaurants(I miss them so!), to cooking, for chasing your l.a. dream, to skiing, for liking cats, and for just plain being gorgeous. So yes, you absolutely suck for not being close enough to seriously hit on. Actually, I guess I kinda failed at the whole "hitting on girls practice" cause I'm fairly certain being worshiped only works for me and never ever works on anyone less narcissistic(which is most people) ;)
Good luck on the acting, and finding a non-douchey guy around here.
And she replied...
Thank you for the ego-boost, it was very sweet and much appreciated :)
Like I said nothing major, but it was really nice.
I wrote....
You suck! Or I do, either way...
Aug. 6, 2010 – 3:50am
My favorite part of your profile, "or you don't drive a hummer" That's so awesome! But anyways, I'm just trying to ego boost you a little(your too far away for me to actually seriously hit on, but lets call it.. hitting on girls practice ;). You seem absolutely adorably from loving karaoking, to watching food network, to working in restaurants(I miss them so!), to cooking, for chasing your l.a. dream, to skiing, for liking cats, and for just plain being gorgeous. So yes, you absolutely suck for not being close enough to seriously hit on. Actually, I guess I kinda failed at the whole "hitting on girls practice" cause I'm fairly certain being worshiped only works for me and never ever works on anyone less narcissistic(which is most people) ;)
Good luck on the acting, and finding a non-douchey guy around here.
And she replied...
Thank you for the ego-boost, it was very sweet and much appreciated :)
Like I said nothing major, but it was really nice.
