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So I look back into my posts.. cause I know I've mentioned this girl before and it turns out.. I did of course, but I didn't mention her much it was actually part of a longer part where.. she wasn't the focus.. but here's the part about her..

June 26th, 2006
03:21 am: Drunken Clarity
So there is a girl involved, but she's not the focus. In retarded moves 101, I let out too much... drunkenly but that's no excuse. As consolation, I pointed out... this is as deep as I get, yes I kinda roller coastered here quickly, but this is as deep as I get. I don't fall anymore, not for.. well.. I've never been that far. I get there quick, and then I just decidedly coast....Like I said though the girl is not the focus.

Uhm.. I guess I better show a link just in case you want to see the rest, which I don't believe you do... But just for completions sake... June 26th, 2006 Wow.. June 26th? It has been a long time!

But anyways... I started talking to the girl on myspace because of my friend tiff, and we got along great. She was fucking awesome. She came over.. we played video games and watched.. monty python and.. made out.. and freaking awesome girl. I invited her out to uberschall apparently... June 25th to uberschall. And she made the mistake of inviting this guy.. Sam who.. has had this crush on her for.. well it's 7-8 years now and counting. And she's just not interested, but they're good friends. I've been there before I feel sorry for the guy so.. I kinda pressure her into telling him... "hey i kinda like this guy.. and he kinda likes me, and i'm not sure where it's going.. but i don't want you to be caught off guard". I mean.. I feel for the guy.. I know how it is, and I know I'd like some warning.. Well they talk and they come out.. and it's awkward.. and then well... That's where the post fits in on the timeline.

A week or a two later we have lunch together.. it's all groovy.. Later that night I invite her out to the bar with us.. and she's not coming, but one way or another. I know she said something, and my reply was to the effect of.. Well I have my eyes on this girl, and that's not her, but we'll see how it is sooner or later" or something to effect of.. It's been over a year people! Well somehow she makes a reply that puts me squarely in the "just friends" category. Now, I'm not one of those guys who needs status updates. I don't care exactly where things are. It's not important. Either we're having fun right now.. or we're not. BUT... Being put squarely into "just friends" category is.. way too definite for me. That's set one way or the other in such a way, that.. I don't want and may not be able to cope with. So we completely stop talking. I don't want anything to do with her, and she's ticked off that I don't want to be just her friend. Actually she sooo deleted me from her myspace!(where we first started talking/sending messages CONSTANTLY) and then made her myspace private. She was ticked.

Well shit! Now... fast forward till about a month ago.

Tuesday night I'm trying to get my friend tiffany(the one who introduced me to aforementioned girl(name is Pei btw!)) to come out to the bar with me and my cousin. Well she won't, but she mentions.. too bad you exed Pei from your life because she's up the street eating sushi by herself. Well my cousin is about to pass out.. he leaves. I goto the Sushi restaurant looking for Pei just for the hell of it. (tiff doesn't know!)

Wednesday night.. It's mcmullan's night. I'm always inviting everyone out. Well.. Tiffany gets Pei and Sam(the just friends guy) to come out. I walk up next to her while she's looking the other way give Sam the hiya nod, she turns around surprised as hell. But all's good. We make small talk yaddi yaddi dah. They're leaving.. I mention I tried stalking her the night before.. she's disappointed. She sends me a myspace message. Hey I don't mean to inflate your ego or anything but it was great to see you. I'm sorry I missed you tuesday night, but thanks for looking for me."

They come out the next wednesday night. Good times.. Sam apparently knows the whole band. Two weeks later I learn... they came separately and she kinda didn't want him there.

Next week is the bachelor party that just passed.

Next wednesday she comes alone...... Here's where it gets interesting. We make out for a good hour or so at the bar. SCORE.. I goto the bathroom, when I come out she's sick. She's getting kicked out. There's another story here with the bouncer and it's unimportant for now... I end up taking her to her house. She's not really that drunk.. It turns out she's allergic to wheat! Why is she drinking beer then? Well her dr. said it's okay in moderation... We went past that apparently.

I call tiffany... "DOn't you dare to tell her I called you!"... turns out Pei is actually hung up on another guy. And she's seriously hung up. Basically it's her and Sam(the guy with the crush from before).. But turned around the other way!(it's a different guy... sam's still in the same situation) So I'm her rebound makeout session? Not a problem.

Well tonight.. err last night. Instead of McMullan's I have a few friends come over and we chill. We have some drinks. We chit chat. We play some DDR. We play some guitar hero. Everyone.. except for me.. Me, Pei.. my friend Nat.. and Pei's sister leave. Well.. while sister and Nat are playing DDR.. Me and Pei are having fun making out. We know we're not being very sneaky.. And as soon as i whisper to her.. Hey I know they know what's going on.. But.. how long before they call us out on it? As soon as I mention that.. we get called out on it of course!

So... where does that leave me now? Well... she'll probably come out next week. We'll get drunk.. and hopefully we'll make out again.... And after that maybe possibly we could hang out sober sometime just for kicks. It doesn't really matter to me. We have fun or we don't. I just like having it open. I like having the possibility there. Sure it may be a slim possibility. But I can live with that. We'll see what happens. And I couldn't be more excited. It could go either way, and that's the way I like it.

Bouncer Tangent

Okay so two requests for this little story... And it's not as interesting as it sounds! Although I was ticked.. Oh man, I was so pissed off.

So she's sick.. She didn't quite make it to the bathroom. So the assumption is, she's going to have to leave. Well I go up to the bouncer and.. Hey what's going on with her? .. She's drunk. She's gotta go. She's done for the night. ... Alright cool, not a problem... Did you call her a cab? ... No I didn't call her cab. That's not my fucking problem... HUH? What do you mean that's not your problem. ... It's not my concern she has to go... So your just going to tell her to get in her car and drive away? ... I don't care what she does. It's not my job to know if she has enough money for cab fare. ... And at this point it all gets fuzzy. I'm pissed off. He's pissed off. He threatens to call the police and have her arrested for public drunkness. She hasn't even come out of the bathroom yet. He starts telling me to the shut the fuck up, don't say another word yaddi yaddi yah.

She was leaving. She was sick. She was going to want to leave anyways. That wasn't a problem. But... I was concerned about her safety. I just wanted some answers. And this guy is going to be fucking rude to me about it? I've been in this bar every Wednesday for about 4 months now. I spend on average about 80 bucks. I invite all my friends EVERY week. I invite all my family. There has been nights when my group has been half the bar. And the fucking bouncer is going to be rude to me? And her safety isn't his concern? Are you fucking kidding me? My favorite waitress and my favorite bartender(yes, i had two tabs!) were both serving her drinks. Who's getting sued if she gets in an accident?

I was livid. Apparently the manager calmed the bouncer dude down or at least got his story or whatever. The manager never talked to me which at that point probably was a good thing anyways. When Pei finally came out of the bathroom, Mary(the waitress) had a bottle of water ready for her. I sat her down on a bench, went and said my goodbyes to my uncle and other friends. She paid her tab, and we left. At first I sat her down in her car.. told her to wait. I went to the corner store and bought two liters of water. She gulped down the first one in.. minutes. I chilled with her for a while there and she was still sick. So I ended up driving her home. She got her car the next day.

I went in the next week(yesterday) early at like 3.. I had a guiness and food from my favorite bartender(Emer) who works word ass shifts apparently lol. Apparently the day shift manager wasn't in or whatever. She was just like "Don't let him bother you. He's just the fucking bouncer." Emer has this oh so awesome irish accent. So hearing that was amusing.

That's the bouncer story, my one and only bad experience at McMullan's.